Vows That Wow: Paula & Alfonso’s Elevated Hotel Emma Dinner Party Wedding

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There’s something really special about getting married at a place you already love. Paula and Alfonso are frequent guests at Hotel Emma, so when it came time to choose their wedding venue, the iconic Pearl Brewery location was the obvious choice. They wanted their reception to feel like an elevated dinner party, not overproduced, not overly precious, just really thoughtfully beautiful.

Sweet August Events was given full creative freedom and truly made magic happen. The draping alone completely transformed Hotel Emma’s ballroom, softening the entire space and creating this intimate, elegant atmosphere before guests even sat down. Paula trusted her planner with very little input, and honestly? That’s when the best design happens.

The florals tell the same story. Paula wanted something unique, so Sweet August Events hand-selected Serracinna and let them do their thing. The result was wildflowers with a modern twist, nothing you’d expect, yet everything you’d want. Even the boutonnieres broke from tradition with cool, contemporary styling that perfectly set the tone.

The Girl General created gorgeous deckled edge menus that completed each table setup, adding that perfect handcrafted detail as well as elegant escort cards. Hotel Emma delivered on catering and bartending (because let’s be honest, that’s equally important), keeping the elevated dinner party vibes going strong all night.

Matthew Alvarado captured every beautifully designed moment with his signature editorial style, while Veil Artistry made sure Paula looked absolutely stunning for both her ceremony look to her second look, because why have just one gorgeous moment when you can have two?

This is one of those weddings that reminds us why thoughtful design matters. Not overproduced, not trying too hard, just an elevated celebration that felt exactly right. Congratulations to the Bena Vides! And don’t miss their stunning wedding film by Squinted Cinema.

Groom in navy tuxedo with black bow tie and white floral boutonniere
Bride in strapless gown and veil holding delicate bouquet at ivy-covered fountain
Garden-style centerpiece with purple and pink blooms on elegant place setting with gold-rimmed plates
Elegant reception setup with draped ivory fabric backdrop, long tables lined with candles and floral centerpieces
Bride and groom entering rustic reception venue with wood beam ceiling and rows of chairs
Elegant place setting with gold-rimmed plates, delicate glassware, and tall cream-colored floral centerpiece
Couple holds hands during outdoor ceremony officiated by priest
Newlyweds toast with cocktails while bride holds white and green floral bouquet outdoors
Newlyweds dancing and celebrating on stage with draped backdrop and floral arrangements at reception
Outdoor ceremony space with wooden chairs, ivy-covered wall, decorative fountain, and floral arrangements
Bride applying makeup at vintage bathroom vanity with ring light mirror
Bride in strapless gown and veil posing beside pink flowering branches
Guests dancing at reception with DJ and greenery backdrop against exposed brick wall
Newlyweds pose together, bride in strapless blush gown with orchid bouquet, groom in navy tuxedo
Elegant appetizer platter with gourmet bites and cocktails on rustic wooden table
DJ booth with greenery flanking exposed brick wall at reception venue
Bridal accessories on round table including silver heels, white bouquet, jewelry, and perfume bottle by window
Bride in satin gown holds delicate white and green bridal bouquet
Elegant reception tables with candlelight, floral centerpieces, and wooden chairs
Rows of amber-colored cocktails in coupe glasses arranged on wooden serving boards
Custom matchboxes featuring San Antonio architecture illustration stacked on decorative plate
Romantic reception centerpiece with delicate blooms in glass vases and candlelight against draped fabric backdrop
Groom in navy tuxedo with black bow tie and white boutonniere smiling in modern venue
Three-tier white wedding cake with draped frosting, fresh berries, and blueberries beside greenery
Bride in flowing veil holding bouquet framed by draped blue fabric at San Antonio venue
Sweetheart table with draped ivory fabric backdrop and colorful floral arrangements in glass vessels
Couple shares first dance under grand circular chandeliers in elegant ballroom with large wine barrel decor
Escort card table decorated with blue blooms in ceramic vases, fresh fruit displays, and candlelight
Bride in white high-low gown and bridesmaid in sage green dress dancing together at reception
Elegant reception space with tiered chandeliers, draped fabric, candlelit tables, and colorful floral arrangements
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